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Welcome to the story of my life: same shit, different day. And I don't mean that literally, of course, because we all know my bowel movements aren't nearly that predictable.
Last week, I fell asleep on the couch, nbd, when I woke with an alarming, stabbing, tearing, searing pain in my side. Last time this happened, almost a year ago, I was so alarmed that I went to the ER-I had never experienced pain like that before, and it scared the hell out of me. I thought something was torn or twisted or ruptured, and I was both relieved and frustrated when the doctor on call shrugged his shoulders and I walked out of the hospital with a clean CT and no answers. This time, same pain, but you know what?
Same shit, different day.
I was alone, and the phone was out of reach, but I calmly told myself to breath through the pain. Some insipid morning talk show was on, and I tried to listen to distract myself while feeling like someone was shivving me in the intestines (can you use that as a verb? As in, "to shiv?" I'm not down on my prison grammar). When the pain lessened a little, I slowly rolled onto my back, then onto my other side, and then sat up. The pain got better. I called the nurse out of habit, but I had no intention of going to the ER. I didn't expect her to have any insight into the problem, and she didn't, and I had already resigned myself to welcoming back my old friend, le liquid diet.
Same shit, different day.
That first sip of protein smoothie tasted like sweet, sweet defeat.
The recovery from this....whatever it was (the doctors don't know either! wheeee) is going more quickly this time, and I've been adding one or two solid foods a day, waiting to see how my AAC will react to the softest, blandest, safest foods imaginable, dealing with the nausea and pain and discomfort that inevitably comes after eating something innocuous (like eggs). Nervously trying new foods, hoping not to wake up in pain or obstruct.
Sound familiar? Because that's a big, heaping helping of same shit, different day.
I went back to see my old doctor, and we made up a little-I didn't cry, we traded circumcision jokes, it was all good-but he had no idea what was causing my pain, and little advice about how to proceed.
You know where to find that book in the library? It's filed under same shit, different day.
I'm now waiting for insurance to approve the next test that might give me some answers, the one the new doctor ordered. I saw him a month ago, he submitted the claim, something went wrong, it was resubmitted, and now it will probably (best case scenario) take at least another two weeks to approve.
You know how to get there? You just merge onto the freeway, and take the same shit, different day exit.
Oh, and this test? I have to swallow a tiny camera, which may or may not get stuck in my AAC. It has a 5% chance of requiring additional intervention/emergency surgery, and I have to prep like I'm having an actual colonoscopy. My doctor actually said it wouldn't be such a bad thing if it got stuck, because then they would know where the problem was.
Hmmm, this room is a little musty. Maybe I'll light my same day, different shit candle.
So here I am, back to where I was a year ago (minus the steroids, thankfully). I'm uncomfortable, stressed out, and waiting for a test that may or may not yield any useful information, but which will surely be a pain in the ass (literally and figuratively) to go through. Insurance is being difficult, I'm playing phone tag with doctors old and new, and I obsess and worry over what I eat, which makes mealtimes AWESOME. I wait for pain, and I wait for tests, and I wait for answers. I sleep a lot, and the days pass, and I try to find happiness in small things. Every day I turn into myself a little more, and reach out a little less.
You all know the chorus: SAME DAY, DIFFERENT SHIT.
I want a new song.
